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halo morning,

april, 22 2009, earth day now still trying to be green generation to this planet not wasting tissue, not wating the water, turn off unusefull light, and more to do .. -in indonesia- mengingat kota jakarta tercinta ini sudah makin tercemar dengan polusi yang minta ampun itu dan udah berasa pula perubahan cuaca yang tidak menentu dan sangat menggangu kesehatan, di siang hari matahari bersinar terang-benderang cerah-ceria tapi sorenya hujan lebat dan angin kencang wuih bener-bener dah kacau banget cuaca sekarang, mungkin semestinya bis" kota yg sudah tua renta itu tidak lagi beroperasi di jalan-jalan kota ini, dan mungkin semestinya apartement" dan mal" yang besar-besar itu tidak di bangun di kota ini, sunggung sangat disayangkan sekalikota ini tumbuh menjadi kota dengan angka polusi udara yang cukup tinggi sekali. Dulu ku ingat kalo musim ujan tiba,yang notabene bulan desember-mei, bersama anak" tetangga qta masih bisa main ujan-ujanan, main kapal-kapalan pake arus air ujan d jalanan sekarang mah boro" mo main ujan-ujanan kena gerimis dikit aja udah bikin kepala ini terasa pusing, mending klo cuman pusing aja beberapa hari kemudian di sertai dengan pilek dan sakit tenggorokan widih bahaya bener kan.. yah sebagai rakyat biasa memang saya tidak dapat mencegah pembangunan mal" besar itu apalagi memberhentikan bus" tua itu beroperasi, secara saya juga salah satu penumpang d dalam bus tua itu heh... tapi mungkin saya dapat melakukan hal-hal positif yang kecil" aja kali yaa mungkin dengan menghemat pemakaian energi, kaya lampu & air walo pun kadang d anggap sepele, ternyata masih banyak juga kota" d negara qta t'cinta ini yang belum bisa d terangi oleh cahaya lampu d malam hari coba aja kota" d Kalimantan atw Irian Jaya sana msh byk tuh desa2 yg masih gelap gulita klo malam tiba, malah pernah baca d salah satu koran klo orang qta nie curi" listrik dari negara tetangga, ko bisa yahh belum lagi klo mereka meninggal gara" curi-mencuri itu soal'y kan mereka nyuri listrik'y ga pake alat-alat pengaman ya ia lah orang nyuri kasian yaa.. mungkin dari saya hanya bisa berbuat hal-hal kecil tuk dapat menyelamatkan bumi tercinta ini, semoga hal-hal kecil ini dapat menjadi besar bila dilakukan bersama-sama.. sekali lagi selamat hari bumi .. be The Green Generation ..

the book I read now is The Twilight Saga the books mostly tell about friendship, romance, sacrifice, adventure .. want to tell much more but don't know what to say.. lack of words

can't guess the story in this book, well not really.. Yes you can guess but still there is something that you don’t know and you will know only if you read it. Maybe you can guess the end of the story but you still have many question in your mind (well actually my mind :D), it's so great the story, the emotion, the plot I just love it.

you know what.. few days ago a saw a video clip and it was so cool the music, the band, the lyric, the setting, they take a location in an ice mountain (seems like) the lyrics was so in to The Twilight, and then I think maybe it is the soundtracks of the movie but it isn’t so sad :( (just info the band is 30Seconds to Mars - A Beautiful Lie)

realize why the author (Stephanie Meyer, provided the link) always wrote about the Muse in The Twilight Saga, the lyrics was so inspiring well maybe it influenced to the novel, one word.. COOL ..

im sorry if there are many mistakes in my writing, u can correct me by sending a comment many thanks ..

if you're like many people, the start of the day isn't your favorite time, so here are some tips you can sneak into your routine without much effort. Try at least one of these tomorrow ...

1. Stretch every extremity for 15 seconds
Try this before you open your eyes. lift your arm and begin by stretching each finger, than your hand, than your wrist, and your arm. Repeat with the other arm. Than your toes, feet, ankles, and legs. End with a neck and a back stretch that propels you out of bed. you've just limbered up your muscles and joints, and enhanced the flow of blood through your body, providing an extra shoot of oxygen to all your tissues.

2. Brush your tongue for one minute
There's no better way to rid your self of morning breath and begin the day minty fresh. Hundreds of bacteria take up residence in your mouth every night, so just brushing your teeth alone isn't going to vanguish them all.

3. Drink a glass of water
Remember, you've been fasting for all night long, so you wake each morning dehydrated.

4. Check your morning calender
Have a large calender or a whiteboard in a prominent position in the kitchen. on it, write everything you need to know for the day. check it each morning as you sip your coffee - it will help you avoid the stress of forgeting something important.

5. Kiss all the people you love
in your house (including the dog and cat) before you leave. Connecting with the ones you love soothes stress and gives a positive start to your day. @ http://www.readersdigest.com.sg

Do you have any experience with Jet Lag? Do know what causes it?
Jet Lag causes by the difference in time that occurs when we cross the time zones. we all have the internal clock that determines when we should sleep, wake up, eat, or perform other bodily functions during the twenty-four-hour periode. so most travelers are not able to adjust to shorter or longer day.

Jet Lag worse after a flight east than it is after a flight west, because most peolpe can adjust a little better to a longer day than they can to a shorter day. it's also true that people over thirty who tend to have a more established routine are likely suffer the most from jet lag.

How can we deal with Jet Lag?
The most intersting research on how to minimize the effects of jet lag are those are those that show the value of shceduling an early evening arrival. Can you imagine why that might be helpfull? it is because we probably just go to bed. this is also some evidence that light plays a role in accommodating a new sleep cycle.
in addition, it seems that a full stomatch increase the symthoms of restlessness and fatigue. in fact eating a samll meal on the plane should help as long as you don't find the nearest restaurant when you land.
finally, alchohol tends to dehyrate the body, which appers make the jet lag worse. so that is why it is better to drink a lots of water and avoid drinking alcohol on the plane.

how long it take to adjust to a new time zone?
we required a half a day for each time zone crossed, so if you can't include a stopover on a long flight, it is better not to schedule an important meeting for the day you arrival.
intersting article from Barron's book

Six weeks to go
Arrange to have any necessary vaccinations. Check if you need a visa and that your passport is valid. Order any medication you'll need. Organise pet/house/garden sitters.

Two weeks to go
Order your currency. Give a copy of your passport, travel insurance, tickets and contact details to a friend. Top up your mobile phone credit and check it's enabled for use abroad. Check the batteries in your smoke alarms and give a neighbour the code for your burglar alarm in case it goes off accidentally. Cancel your newspaper delivery.

Day Before
Ensure you pack your passport, money, tickets, driving licence, insurance documents, emergency phone numbers, camera, film, batteries, power-socket adaptors, sunscreen, insect repellent, headache tablets and antiseptic spray. Switch off your gas and electrical appliances. @ www.rdasia.com

Elex Book Fair at Roxi Square
To celebrate 24th years Elex Media komputindo. Discount up to 70%
30 January – 1 March 2009
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Mega Bazaar Computer promote by Dyandra Promosindo,
live at 7 cities in Indonesia
25 February to 1 March 2009
Cendrawasih, Assembly, Hall A, Hall B - Jakarta Convention Center.
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• 2 cups all-purpose flour


• 1 teaspoon salt


• 4 teaspoons baking powder


• 2 tablespoons white sugar


• 2 eggs


• 1 1/2 cups warm milk


• 1/3 cup butter, melted


• 1 teaspoon vanilla extract

DIRECTIONS
1. In a large bowl, mix together flour, salt, baking powder and sugar; set aside. Preheat waffle iron to desired temperature.
2. In a separate bowl, beat the eggs. Stir in the milk, butter and vanilla. Pour the milk mixture into the flour mixture; beat until blended.
3. Ladle the batter into a preheated waffle iron. Cook the waffles until golden and crisp. Serve immediately. @ http://allrecipes.com

Have a nice breakfast Hope you'll have a great day ..

The time you spend at the office may be the most stressful part of your day, but it doesn't have to be. You have a greater ability to shape your office environment than you may realize.

• Take breaks throughout the day. It will help clear your mind and relieve pressure. Something as simple as going to the water cooler for a drink may do the trick.
• Enroll in a noontime or an after-work exercise class. This will give you a chance to unwind and a way to relieve stress.
• To help your workday go smoothly, try pacing your activities: Do more demanding work in the morning, when your energy level is higher, and easier work later in the day, when you may be tired.
• Try listening to music recordings, such as a pounding surf or songbirds, to help you relax. Such tapes are sold commercially. Use headphones if you'll be listening to them in the middle of the of the workday
• Get to work early or stay late once a week. You may be able to accomplish more when you vary your routine.

1. Avocados
   The cholesterol-lowering monounsaturated fat in these green health bombs can help keep your body strong and pain free. University of Buffalo researchers found that competitive women runners who ate less than 20 percent fat were more likely to suffer injuries than those who consumed at least 31 percent. Peter J. Horvath, Ph.D., a professor at the university, speculates that the problem is linked to extreme low-fat diets, which weaken muscles and joints. "A few slices of avocado a day are a great way to boost fat for women who are fat shy," says Leslie Bonci, R.D., director of sports nutrition at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center.
2. Bananas
   Thanks to bananas' high potassium content, peeling one is a speedy solution to that stitch in your side. While a lack of sodium is the main culprit behind muscle cramps, studies show potassium plays a supporting role: You need it to replace sweat losses and help with fluid absorption. Bananas are also packed with energizing carbohydrates. One medium-size fruit has 400 milligrams of potassium and as many carbs (29 grams) as two slices of whole-wheat bread.
3. Berries
   USDA researchers recently placed fresh berries on their list of the 20 foods richest in antioxidants. Just a handful of blueberries, raspberries, or blackberries is an excellent source of these potent nutrients, which protect muscles from free radical damage that might be caused by exercise. Shop for berries by the shade of their skin: The deeper the color, the healthier the fruit.
4. Chicken Thighs
   Skimp on iron and zinc and your energy will flag. Cooking up some juicy chicken thighs or turkey drumsticks is the best way to get more of both. "Dark-meat poultry is significantly lower in fat than red meat yet has all the iron, zinc, and B vitamins that women need in their diets," says Seattle sports nutritionist Susan Kleiner, Ph.D., author of Power Eating.
5. Chocolate Milk
   There's way more to milk than just calcium. In fact, it's a damn near perfect food, giving you a lot of valuable energy while keeping your calorie count low, says nutritionist Susan Kleiner, Ph.D. The chocolate kind is loaded with calcium, vitamins, and minerals just like the plain stuff, but new studies confirm that milk with a touch of cocoa is as powerful as commercial recovery drinks at replenishing and repairing muscles.
6. Cranberries
   This packable fruit delivers a generous pre- or postworkout blast of carbohydrates (25 grams per ¼ cup). Plus, cranberries have proanthocyanins, compounds that help prevent and fight urinary tract infections. Running to the bathroom every 5 minutes definitely isn't the kind of workout you need.
7. Oranges
   "They're portable. They're a fruit you can get year-round. And they're a rich source of vitamin C," says Leslie Bonci, R.D., "which helps repair muscle tissue." One orange has all the C a woman needs each day—close to 75 milligrams. Vitamin C is also key for making collagen, a tissue that helps keep bones strong.
8. Peanuts
   No wonder Mr. Peanut never stops tap-dancing. Female soccer players kicked and sprinted just as well in the final minutes of a game as they did at the start when they added 2 ounces of peanuts a day to their regular diet, says University of Buffalo professor, Peter J. Horvath, Ph.D. The extra fat may help improve endurance by giving muscles energy to burn up front so they can spare muscle glycogen stores later
9. Potatoes
   Sweat like a pig? Four shakes of salt (about 1,100 milligrams of sodium) and a small baked potato is the perfect recipe for electrolyte replacement. "The electrolytes, sodium and potassium, help maintain fluid balance in and around cells and make sure muscles contract as they need to," says Leslie Bonci, R.D.
10. Salmon

Great for heart health, but here's an added twist: New studies are suggesting that monounsaturated fats and omega-3 fats might help lessen abdominal fat. It's too soon to understand the link, but "this could be particularly good for women working to tone their core," says nutritionist Susan Kleiner, Ph.D.

One of the lessons of these studies is that moderate changes (a diet with 20% to 30% of calories from fat) may be sufficient to help prevent breast cancer. But if you’ve already been diagnosed, you probably need to make bigger changes. Aim for less than 10% to 15% of calories from fat, and note these guidelines.

Eat well. There are thousands of food substances that have powerful protective properties. With few exceptions, these factors are found in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, legumes and some fish, so emphasize these foods to minimize your risk. Take 3 grams a day of fish oil, and stay away from all other added oils. Drink green tea. Avoid foods high in fat and refined carbohydrates, which may promote cancer, and avoid alcohol. A recent study of 240,000 women found that those who were postmenopausal and who had one drink per day had a 30% higher rate of dying from breast cancer than women who didn’t drink.

Exercise. Walk 30 minutes a day. Women who do regular physical activity may reduce the incidence of breast cancer by 20% to 30%.

Ease up. Chronic stress may increase the risk of breast cancer. Research shows that women with breast cancer who were the most depressed had a significantly increased risk of relapse or death. So breathe, meditate, do yoga, pray, practice tai chi. And spend time with friends and family: Women with metastatic breast cancer who met in a support group once a week for a year lived nearly twice as long as those who didn’t have the emotional support.

From Reader's Digest - October 2007

One day I hopped into a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean he was really friendly. So I asked, "Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!"This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call "The Law of the Garbage Truck" He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you. Don't take it personally. Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the street. The bottom line is that successful people don't let garbage trucks take over their day.

Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets,
so .. Love the people who treat you right, Forgive the ones who don't.
Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!

Good Day ..

1. "Anger will never disappear so long as thoughts of resentment are cherished in the mind. Anger will disappear just as soon as thoughts of resentment are forgotten." (Budhha)

2. "The greatest remedy for anger is delay." (Seneca) Counting from 50 backwards not only provides a delay, but shifts brain activity from the emotional part to the analytical part of the brain, decreasing the intensity of the unwanted emotion.

3. Study relaxation and meditation techniques to reduce stress.

4. Discuss the situation, not the person; discuss the unwanted behavior without name-calling.

5. Remaining calm allows you to examine the options and seek solutions. Getting angry blocks clear thinking.

No one can make you angry. Whether you become angry or not depends on how you choose to react to circumstances. Suppose someone cuts you off in traffic and "makes" you angry, and you decide to speed up and do the same to the other driver. What is the result? You have turned over your power to the other driver. You started out driving safely, but now you are driving dangerously because of what someone did to you. You gave them the power to change your behavior! Does that make any sense?

Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote, "For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness." Not worth it, is it? Someone else wrote, "When you meet up with a disagreeable person, never allow yourself to be upset. Say to yourself, if a dowdy like that can stand himself all his life, surely I can stand him for a few minutes." With these thoughts in mind, let's remain in control of our most valuable asset, our mind.

I read of a man who stood up to speak
At the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning to the end.
He noted that first came the date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears.
But said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
That she had spent alive on the earth.
And now only those who loved her know
What that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we own,
The cars, the house, the cash -
What matters most is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.
So think about it long and hard . . .
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
That can still be rearranged.If we could just slow down enough
To consider what is true and real,
And try to understandThe way other people feel.
Be less quick to angerAnd show appreciation more,
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved them before.
Treat each other with respect
And more often wear a smile,
Remembering this special dash
Might only last a while.
So when your eulogy is being read,
With your life's actions to rehash,
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?

by Linda Ellis @ http://www.lindaslyrics.com

February 15, 2009

orang baru nih di dunia Blogging .. pedatang baru ..
akhirnya memutuskan untuk membuat blogg setelah terhasut oleh ajakan teman hehehe dan pernah ada yang tanya "klo emang suka baca kira-kira klo di minta untuk nulis lo bakal nulis apa?" wah bingung jawabnya gw mo nulis tentang apa yah ?? sama sekali ga kepikiran, walo pun pernah kepikiran ide-ide konyol yang ga jelas, tapi klo di pikir-pikir lagi bener juga sie kenapa ga coba nulis aja apa yang ada di pikiran lo, siapa tau jadinya bagus, well who knows ..

and here I am try to create my blogg, my story, lily story ..
have a nice read and many thanks for your visit